When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you never blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may be the ground it was planted in, you may need better fertiliser, more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet, when we have a challenge with our business, we blame the business, whatever we may find to blame our business not able to work. However, if we know HOW to take care of our business, it will grow well, like the lettuce.
Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does it try to persuade using reason and argument. This is our experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, only understanding HOW to take care of your business. If you understand, and you show you understand, the situation changes.